The Belief Engineer
Blending science and spirit to help purpose-driven professionals discover who they truly are and set their minds free, so they can build a better world.
And all it takes is a Leap of Faith.
Discovering who you TRULY are is the adventure of a lifetime. What are you waiting for?
We're not programmed, we're not broken.
You're stuck, held back in your business and in life... and you know that you're the only thing in the way.
You've done everything you can to fix it. You've tried therapy, about a dozen coaching programs. Somatic practices and emotional release. Breath work. Spiritual retreats, maybe even psychedelics.
Everything helps, of course, and moves the ball forward. So why are you still stuck?
It's because we have a second set of beliefs we can't touch.
We know that we have limiting beliefs.
What we don't realize is that we have TWO KINDS of limiting beliefs.
The one we typically work on is based on logic, reason. It's a rational set of beliefs based on the stories we've told about why we are the way we are, at various stages of our lives. There's dozens of ways to work on these beliefs - and they work pretty well.
But we have a SECOND set of beliefs, ones that are based on PATTERNS rather than facts. These pattern-based beliefs drive our emotional responses. They set the frame for everything that follows.
Because our minds still perceive those patterns in our lives, those beliefs don't change on their own. All the rational work we do creates exceptions to the rule - we haven't disproved the rule itself.
Let me introduce you to the deepest pattern-based belief we hold.
Toxic Belief System
There's something wrong with me
I'm not good enough
I don't deserve what I want
So I can't get what I want
And this is painful for me
We start our life in a world we can’t control. We have to find a way for people to care for us - if we don’t, we don’t survive. So if we can't get what we need, our minds begin to panic and look for answers.
We assume if we can’t have it, we don’t deserve it. Which means we’re not good enough in some way, because something is wrong with us.
This creates the core Toxic Belief System.
We look at ourselves, try to figure out what’s wrong. We create a Problem Self - the concept of who and what we are that explains “what’s wrong”, why we’re “not enough.” This is the Who that we try to solve. Tell me if this sounds familiar.
Once we know who Problem Self is, it’s time to figure out who our Ideal Self should be. We look at the world around us, look at what we’re good at. Try things on for size - especially as we get into our college years.
And that works... for a while. You get the job, you get the relationships, you make the money. You get promoted, all that good jazz. And we keep going.
Right up until we can’t deny it anymore.
Things just aren’t right inside of us.
So you declare war on your bullshit, and you go diving deep into your own darkness. You do the therapy, the healing, the trauma work. Maybe you go the spiritual route, psychedelics and the like. Shadow work, of course, dealing with the subconscious mind.
You get to a point where you're done messing around with the limiting beliefs, the self sabotage, the endless stories of the past. And yet you're still stuck.
Why?
It’s because we’re still trying to solve our Problem Self by living the Ideal Self life. We KNOW we’re not being true to who we really are - that there’s a disconnect. And no amount of success or healing changes that.
The solution is to dissolve BOTH the Problem and Ideal Selves. We dismantle the Toxic Belief System and replace it with the Optimal Belief System .
Then we can let go of BOTH constructs - letting your TRUE SELF naturally emerge. That spark of the Divine within you that's always been there.
And that's when life starts to get VERY interesting indeed.
Optimal Belief System
There's nothing wrong with me, never was
There's nothing to heal, never was
I am good enough exactly as I am
So I deserve whatever I choose
I don't have to prove this to anyone
Nothing and nobody can prove this wrong
And that’s when life becomes effortless. When you’re done fixing and healing.
Where you’re done spending hours each week managing your mind.
Living a life in full alignment with what you know, deep down you’re meant to do.
When you let go of all the misunderstandings of the past...
When you let go of ego and the stories we tell...
You become who you TRULY are.
We don’t have to prove anything to ourselves or anyone else. We don’t have to settle for less in our relationships, in our life. We don’t have to keep hiding who we really are from the world and from ourselves. We don’t have to keep living in the past, our minds can stop running in circles day after day.
We can be free. Free to be who we TRULY ARE, and have always been deep down inside. Free to finally step into that grand purpose we’ve dreamed about. Free to find love, free to finally be at ease with ourselves and the world.
It doesn’t take long, when you have the right guide. It won’t hurt a bit, and it’s not even hard - all we have to do is hear the story our mind wants to tell us, and help it write a different one instead.
All it takes is a Leap of Faith.
Take a Leap of Faith
No, this isn't a coaching program. It's not therapy. It's not a hot new take on an old idea.
In my program, we dive deep into the most foundational beliefs you have. We look at the very concept of what Self is and can be, what it "should" be. We explore how these beliefs were created, why they came to be. Then we take them apart, dismantle them, so it's as if they were NEVER true at all.
And in it's place, we build the Optimal Belief System.
There's nothing wrong with me,
and there never was.
You were never the problem. If you're in an environment where you can't get what you need, it's never about you. Never what you did or didn't do. The game was rigged from the start.
There's nothing to heal,
and there never was.
Negative emotions - even intense ones - ARE NOT PAIN. They're questions - your mind is showing you the challenge you're facing, and asking for help to solve it. So there's no wounds, never were.
I am good enough as I am to deserve whatever I choose.
If you need to fix or heal yourself, you're broken... and we know that broken things aren't valuable. That's now changed forever - so for the first time, we can create healthy self esteem and worthiness.
I don't have to prove that to anyone,
not even myself.
But if we're measuring our worth, our value, the answer can always be "not enough". Instead, it simple becomes a choice you make. A choice you don't have to justify to anyone - not even yourself.
Let them tell you in their own words...
"My real self was coming out..."
"I got a sense of the highest version of my existence... I genuinely felt I was complete and perfect as I am... I want to be my best and give my best to the world." - Luis G.
"This is the missing piece"
"Confidence... No matter what comes, to have that eternal peace inside.... I've spent at least $70,000 - I wish that I had this from the beginning..."
- Ellian
"The anchor keeping me stuck was gone"
"With just 3 questions he understood where and why I was stuck... Goals I had been striving towards... were suddenly met."
- Katie W.
"Highly effective and incredibly efficient"
"The result was clarity, peace and a real sense of being at ease with who I am for the first time in years. I stopped trying to fix myself."
- Joel W.
"I never imagined it would be so quick"
"I've gained newfound confidence and a stronger connection to my true self. I'm no longer afraid to pursue what I really want."
- Nathalie A.